Untangling Grief

 

Untangling Grief at Christmas 

      There are certain traditions during the Christmas season that are exciting. The childlike anticipation is almost palpable. There are some things about the Christmas season that are incredibly frustrating though, one of them being the yearly struggle of untangling Christmas lights. I’m sure all of you can think of moments when the spirit of Christmas present became a spirit of Christmas struggle. You pull out a tote full of Christmas lights and you are already regretting the decision. Each year when you take the lights down, you had the good intentions of organizing them, but each winter season reminds you that you didn’t do a very good job of being prepared for the next season. The lights are incredibly frustrating because they are a tangled mess. To complicate matters further it’s usually freezing cold when we put the lights up, making it even more difficult to untangle them. It reminds me of the Bob Rivers song the 12 pains of Christmas. The second day of Christmas was always talking about rigging up those lights. I can remember a time with my wife and I were trying to untangle the lights and they were all one big bundle. Multiple strands intertwined. The worlds most gifted surgeon wouldn’t have been able to operate on them. Christmas lights became mission impossible. And we ended up going to the store to purchase all new lights.

      Those Christmas lights remind me of the reality of grief during the holiday season, especially for me since I recently lost the love of my life. You’re in the mist of what supposed to be a time of excitement, but instead you find yourself almost adrift, even overwhelmed, maybe even to the point where you don’t want to celebrate. You look at the Christmas season as that big huge ball of tangled lights. Untangling the emotions of grief is overbearing. You have emotions like sorrow, bitterness, doubt, sadness, denial, joy, relief, and a million other emotions bearing down on you like freight trains, traveling full speed. Grief is hard all the time, but especially during the Christmas season. Everyone else is enjoying their Christmas festivities, they’re enjoying the spirit of the season, meanwhile, you feel like you are at a pause. Like Time has stopped moving forward for you. You see happy couples and jealousy overwhelms you because you miss your loved one. Thankfully the Bible is not quiet on the subject of grief. The Savior and the Scriptures are well acquainted with grief and sorrow. Psalm 119:28 says my soul melts away for sorrow, strengthen me according to your word. I think it’s unique that the Psalmist mentions the soul in regards to sorrow. Grief affects the deepest part of us, it affects the eternal part of us, the part of us that lives on in one of two eternal destinations. I think that’s what makes grief so unique of an emotion. It’s not just a temporal physical emotion, but it affects us in such a deep way that it touches our soul. Holding on the grief is like holding on to the tangled Christmas lights. It’s frustrating at times, we want to get through it quickly, but it requires tenderness and patience. But grief is more of a marathon versus a sprint. It’s not about who gets done first, to be honest with you grieving is a lifelong process. It’s not something that you merely get over. You’re grieving for a reason, not just a season. You’re grieving because you lost somebody that you love and care for, making the grief worth it. To trade in grief would be trading in the love we had for somebody. And it wouldn’t be an equal trade. I would rather grieve intensely because of how I love somebody, than to have nobody to grieve over at all. So yes, the emotions get all tangled together, but by the grace of God, He helps balance us out. He allows, grief, and emotion. His Son was perfectly acquainted with, but He also brings us joy and comfort through the Holy Spirit. So for those of you, that are grieving, grieve. But don’t grieve as a people with no hope. For those of you who have friends of yours that are grieving, grieve with them. Give them an extra ounce of grace during the Christmas season. And maybe help them untangle the emotional bundle that they currently handle. Trust me, they need it.

What's the Big Deal?

Colossians 2:9

November 7th Devotional

      On this day in 680, 43 bishops convened in the imperial palace of Constantinople to debate a religious doctrine that was rapidly spreading.  This meeting would later become known as the Third Council of Constantinople.  This was the smallest gathering out of the major councils that helped determine the basis for Orthodoxy in Christianity.  The church was fragile in the mid 600’s and was seeking identity.  The religion of Islam was rapidly growing and becoming a genuine threat.  Many areas that were previously ‘Christian’ quickly fell under the flag of Islam.  The church as a whole was splintered as there was tremendous tension between the “western” church and the “eastern” church due to theological disagreements.  The church felt pressure to be united but in their attempt, they were willing to forsake Bible doctrine.  These compromises were a menace that caused the church to be divided and weak.  Emperor Constantine IV oversaw the meeting with hopes of settling some of the major differences that were rising.  This ten-month debate revolved around two new doctrines that were being propagated, monoenergism and monothelitism.  These complicated words mean that while the churches had agreed that Christ had two natures, the human and the divine (the God-Man), there was a question of Christ’s ‘energy’ and His will.  Did Christ have one will or two wills?  Was His will merely divine or was it like His nature, both divine and human?  This might not seem like a huge issue in our time but the church had five previous councils that each debated Christ’s relation to God the Father and the balance of His humanity and deity.   These previous councils were built on great scenes of passion and discussion.  Heretics abounded and it was of the utmost importance to have the right doctrinal teaching.  There could not be a tolerance for any ‘false teaching.’  After eighteen sessions the bishops concluded that Christ had two wills, both in perfect unity and accord, a human one and a divine one, though the human will was subject to the divine will.  The argument was basically if Christ has two natures, human and divine, then He must also have two ‘wills’ or else that would deprive Him of His full humanity.

      One might ask, why was this council of such value?  The value was to solidify our Christological doctrines.  We must teach correctly on who Jesus is.  The Bible unquestionably teaches that Jesus is both 100% God and 100% man.  In Colossians, we read that “For in him (Jesus) the whole fulness of deity dwells bodily (Colossians 2:9).  The deity of Christ matters.  If He was merely a man, a good teacher, a prophet, etc then He was also a liar when He told the people in John’s Gospel account “Before Abraham was, I AM (John 8:58).  Christ also could not just be just a man because that would destroy the understanding of His incarnation.  John 1:14 says that the Word became flesh and dwelt among us (John 1:14).  Jesus, being 100% God, took on flesh (100% man).  We cannot divorce those Biblical truths.  Christ undeniably affirms His deity and humanity over and over in Scripture.  We need to rejoice in our spiritual fathers who bravely stood firm on Bible truth, even when it would have been alluring to compromise.  We need to rejoice in their efforts to study the Word.  May our hearts take peace in settled theology.  May our hearts also be convicted to spend quality time in God’s Word to behold the truths before our very eyes.

Releasing Resentment: November 2nd Devotional

Releasing Resentment 

Ephesians 4:31-32

November 2nd Devotional

      On this day in 1880, James Garfield was elected as the 20th president of the United States.  James was the youngest of five children.  He was born in a log cabin in Ohio and would end up being the last of the log cabin presidents.  His father died after saving the family farm from a raging wildfire.  James was only two at the time.   His father’s death caused the family to suffer through abject poverty.  Childhood was extremely difficult for James.  He was often picked on and found comfort by reading for countless hours.  Books became his best friends.  His love for reading formed a love for learning in general.  He excelled in college, especially in the subjects of Latin, Greek, and mathematics.  He worked as a janitor, preacher, and canal man to pay off his education.  Garfield remains the only president who was an ordained pastor.  His faith would continue to grow throughout his life.  He was in church so often that his future assassin thought about attacking him at church.  He would continue his education, later becoming the president of Hiram College.  But politics drew him from full-time ministry and the education field.  He joined the newly formed Republican party because of its aversion to slavery.  He was elected to the Ohio Legislature in 1859.  While serving he joined the Union effort during the Civil War.  He proved to be a very distinguished soldier during the Tennessee theater of the war.  He served so well that he was named a Major General.  After the war he continued to serve in the House of Representatives, fighting for reconstruction.  The Republican convention convened in 1880 and Garfield wasn’t supposed to be a nominee, but his speakers enchanted those that were in attendance.  James argued against his nomination but after thirty-six ballots he became the dark horse candidate.  His excellent oratory skills helped him defeat his Democratic opponent, Winfield Scott Hancock (a fellow Union General).  He was by a narrow 11,000 votes, less than .1% more than his opponent.  Garfield’s tenure started with great promise. He also happened to be the first left handed president. He was a strong leader and an excellent speaker, but his presidency was cut short when Charles J. Guiteau shot the president twice.  His primary motivation was resentment for not being offered a position to serve under Garfield.  James suffered for weeks until he succumbed to an infection.  He served a mere 199 days, marking his presidency as the second shortest.

      James Garfield’s life was cut short because someone was resentful.  Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping that it harms someone else.  We’ve all felt that powerful emotion.  We have felt robbed, unfairly treated, ignored, overlooked.  It might be a job where we aren’t given a promotion or a scorned love, or maybe we feel like others have taken advantage of us.  What do we do when those dark thoughts creep into our mind?  Do we allow them to take our mind captive?  Instead, we are to put them away.  Paul told the church of Ephesus “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.  Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32).”  Paul powerfully says put this away.  Bitterness, wrath, anger, etc cannot be tolerated in the life of the Christian.  Yes, we might be disappointed, and yes we might feel scorned, but that does not give us a license to allow those emotions to overwhelm our lives.  We need to put them away.  Most of us are putting away summer clothes during this month because we won’t need shorts and swimming trunks.  They aren’t needed.  The same can be said about resentment, we put it away because we don’t need it.  It doesn’t benefit it, it only harms us.  Instead, Paul says to be kind, tenderhearted, and to forgive.  Those are the harder things to do.  It causes us to take our focus off who offended us and instead to have the mind of Christ.  The next time feelings of bitterness or resentment wash over your soul, put them away, right away.  Put on kindness and love.  There are no regrets when we love like Jesus.  

Sparking the Flame: October 31st Devotional

Sparking the Flame

Ephesians 2:8

October 31st Devotional

      On this day in 1517, an obscure German Monk named Martin Luther nailed his 95 Theses to the church door at Wittenberg Castle.  Luther was born to wealthy parents in 1483.  His family wanted him to be a lawyer, but after a near-death experience, Luther felt that God was calling him to be a monk.  Luther joined an Augustinian Monastery and would go on to achieve his doctorate in Biblical studies.  During this time, the Scriptures started becoming more readily available in the common tongue, along with the writings of various church fathers.  Luther began to pour over the scriptures and was quickly convinced of the erroneous teachings within the Roman Catholic Church.  The 95 theses were in essence an invitation for public debate on the subjects they contained.  His two primary arguments against the Roman Catholic Church was the selling of indulgences and that salvation was by grace alone.  The selling of indulgences had been common practice since the ninth century.  The selling of indulgences included performing certain acts that would ‘absolve’ someone of their sins.  One example would be when Pope Urban II remitted anyone’s sins who fought in the Crusades.  More commonly a person was asked to perform an act or purchase something from the church and in return the priest would provide the person with a slip of paper reducing someone’s time in purgatory, or forgiving them of their own sin.  While the selling of indulgences is illegal in our time, they are still provided for people who do good works for the Roman Catholic Church.  Luther’s other primary argument was salvation by works.  For countless centuries the Roman Catholic Church taught that salvation was found only in the church and was only attainable by works.  His 95 Theses spread rapidly in Germany and eventually came to the pope in Rome.  Over the course of the next four years, Martin Luther was labeled as a heretic, the church demanded that he recant, and eventually, he was excommunicated from the Roman Catholic Church, thus the church condemned Luther to hell.  Luther would live out the next thirty years of his life challenging the Roman Catholic Church, even under the threat of harm and death.  He even dedicated himself to translating the Scriptures into German for the common man, a task that took him over ten years to complete.

      Luther was the spark for the Protestant Reformation and the breaking of the Catholic stronghold on the world.  We are ‘children’ of that great fire that swept forth.  The Protestant Reformation is one of the greatest miracles in history.  Luther dared to stand up to the most powerful men of his time and declared “For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God (Ephesians 2:8).”  Today we echo Martin Luther’s revolutionary thought, we are saved solely by God’s grace.  We are not saved by any works, effort, morality, religion, or good that we possess.  We are saved only by the finished work of Jesus Christ on the Cross and the faith that we place in Him.  It seems odd that there was a period when that theological truth was contested and standing against it meant the possibility of harm.  A time may come when the world will move away from salvation by grace alone.  We need more “Martin Luther’s” who will stand on the truth of salvation by grace.  Today, rejoice that God saves unconditionally.  Rejoice that He made salvation simple.  Rejoice that it’s not based on what you and I do, but based on what Christ has done.

Reflections at the Beach: A Sunset Ending

 

Picture Credit: My beloved wife Tiffanie.  This is taken as 

drove over the Bay Bridge.  She would tragically pass away

from cancer one month after this picture was taken.

Each sunset matters, even the glorious final one when 

we go home to heaven.

Reflections at the Beach

Week sixteen

A Sunset Ending 

Psalm 113:3

      I can't think of a better way to close out a day at the beach than simply walking hand in hand with those that you love as the sun sets near you. It might sound overly romantic or somewhat cliche, but nothing can disturb the perfection of a sunset. Nothing can compare with a sunset near the shore.  The typically blue sky is radiated with Hues of orange, pink, and purple. The Master Artist chooses to change the palette of His colors He uses. Each brushstroke reminds us to magnify His name. The final few rays stretch the heavens to remind us of someone far greater than us. It's incredible that the most important star in our solar system which resides over 93 million miles away can have such an effect on us. Humanity since its creation has been in awe of it. Sunsets also remind us of the beauty in endings. Endings don't always seem beautiful though. I'm sure we've all watched movies or read books where the ending wasn't quite what we expected. Possibly it was anti-climatic or disappointing. But the glory of a sunset reminds us that endings can be beautiful, but can be difficult. 

      Most of us have adopted the picturesque image of every story ending with the words 'they lived happily ever after.' The idea that happy endings are etched in stone is nothing more than wishful thinking. Every story has an ending, but maybe not the happy one that we had planned. What do we do when the relationship that we planned falls apart? What do we do when the dream job closes? What do we do when a doctor's visit changes our entire outlook? Or when our spouse gets cancer? Or loved ones endure dementia where they don't even know who they are ? Or what do we do when the college we wanted to go to says no? None of that was in 'the cards. ' We didnt plan for that to be the ending. We would have never wrote the story in that fashion. What do we do when our happy ending forces a new beginning?  The psalmist wrote "From the rising of the sun unto the going down of the same the LORD'S name is to be praised (Psalm 113:3)." How can we praise God when disappointment and discouragement strike our hearts deeply? How do we thank God when we are mired in the fog of confusion? How do we praise God when an ending tragically causes us to say goodbye to those we love the most? We're able to praise God because He holds every tomorrow, the expected and the unexpected. We're able to praise God because the ultimate ending is to be with Him forever through Jesus Christ. Each of our temporal endings on planet Earth fluctuates, but our Eternal ending is a glorious promise to live with Jesus forever. Maybe you are stuck right now living in the disappointment of what could have been. Maybe you are carrying feelings of bitterness because the ending is not what you expected. But don't allow the bitterness to take your eyes off of the Lord and to praise Him. To give Him thanks for each ending, happy or not. And give Him the ultimate Glory that the ending of your story is His story. 

The Disharmony of Anxiety: October 24th Devotional

The Disharmony of Anxiety

Matthew 6:34

October 24th Devotional

      On this day in Berlin, 1819, Felix Mendelssohn played in his first public concert at the age of nine.  Felix was born in 1809, one of four children to a wealthy Jewish family in Germany.  The Mendelssohn family believed in providing the best education and opportunities for their children.  They would often invite various professors or musicians to their home.  All four of their children showed interest in the area of art or music.  Felix’s sister Fanny would become a great pianist (which was rare during that time).  Felix started to learn piano from his mother at the age of six.  He quickly excelled beyond the ability of his mother.  He would receive more formal training, often surpassing his teachers.  His family quickly realized that he was a child prodigy, but they did not want to exploit their son or try to capitalize on his ability.  They begrudgingly allowed him to perform publicly in a chamber music concert.  The audience was awed by his ability.  The family would then invite others to Sunday concerts in their home.  Felix became a household name.  Between the ages of 12-14, he wrote 12 stringed symphonies.  The bulk of his famous works were composed before he turned twenty.  His most famous composition would be setting music to Shakespeare’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream.”  Most of you reading this are unknowingly aware of this overture.  Brides come down the aisle to the “wedding march” which is a portion of that wonderful piece.  His musical ability would grow to playing the piano, the organ, composing, and even conducting.  He would also become quite an accomplished painter.  His fame would spread rapidly.  Large audiences would fill music halls all across Europe as Mendelssohn toured.  During this time of traveling, Mendelssohn started to suffer from the effects of overworking and anxiety.  His anxiety started to take effect on his physical health.  Tragically Felix died at the age of 38 after suffering multiple strokes.  To this day he is still considered one of the best, if not the greatest musician of the Romantic period.

      Anxiety takes its toll on everyone, even people like Felix Mendelssohn.  Sometimes we are good at masking it but nonetheless, anxiety causes the heart to race and the mind to doubt.  It is a spiritual issue that plagues all of us; it does not discriminate based on age, gender, social status, or skin color.  Anxiety is one of the only problems in our world that affects us mentally, spiritually, and physically.  To worry is human, so how do we battle a beast that has waged war on humanity since the introduction of sin?  In Matthew 6:34 we find Jesus saying “So do not worry about tomorrow.”  Those are simple words for our problem with anxiety.  Worry doesn’t stop simply because we tell it to stop.  I worry about how to stop worrying.  Jesus gives us the ultimate remedy for anxiety and stress in the previous verse, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness…”  Anxiety often hits me when I take my eyes off Jesus.  Stress takes me under like the waves of the ocean when I stop taking life’s circumstances to Jesus.  Jesus says to seek His kingdom first, to seek Him first.  Next time you feel that tension rising in your chest, that tightness in your jaw, run to Jesus…seek Jesus.  Simply give it to Him.  He wants the things that burden you and worry you.  Give up worry and give in to Jesus.

What's the Rush: October 6th Devotional

 What's the Rush

James 1:2-3

October 6th Devotional

     On this day in 1960, CBS premiered their newest sitcom, the Andy Griffith Show.  The concept was first pitched on the Danny Thomas Show as a special comedic act featuring Andy Griffith.  The audience reacted so positively that Thomas helped create and direct the new show.   The show focused on the adventures of a widowed sheriff named Andy Taylor who lived in the tiny little town of Mayberry North Carolina.  Living with Andy would be his Aunt Bee and his boy Opie.  Other main characters in the show included the incomparable Don Knotts who played Deputy Barney Fife, Goober and his cousin Gomer, Floyd the Barber, Howard Sprague, Emmett the repairman, Otis the town drunk, Clara Edwards, and my personal favorite, Ernest T. Bass.  Each show opened with the “Fishing Hole” monologue where Andy and Opie head to the lake to do some fishing.   Who can forget the simplistic whistle?  The show would continue for eight seasons, totaling 249 episodes (all of which included Andy), and winning countless awards along the way.  The show was always in the top ten for TV rankings and in its final season it was rated number one.  The show would create a spin-off, Gomer Pyle USMC, and would continue yet another three seasons as Mayberry RFD.  It also went on to produce a made-for-TV movie in 1986.

      My favorite episode is called “Man in a Hurry.”  It follows the story of Malcolm Tucker, a wealthy and important businessman from Charlotte whose car breaks down two miles outside of town.   Mr. Tucker enters the sleepy little burg of Mayberry with high hopes of getting his car fixed quickly only to find out that the town basically shuts down on Sundays.  People take the day off to relax and spend time with family.  Malcolm wasn’t even able to get a phone call out because the Mendlebright sisters would tie up the line all day.  Mr. Tucker was frustrated and fumed trying to get someone to fix his car; he would even exclaim “I want my car fixed now, today, this very minute.”  He struggled with relaxing, he struggled with taking a break, and he struggled with being patient.  I’m reminded of James 1:2-3, “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.”  Malcom struggled in the face of his trial and his trial proved that he was bankrupt in the department of patience.  Trials often do that.  They put us into the crucible of God to produce godly character.  Trials often touch on how much patience we have, or for some of us, me included, the lack thereof.  None of us like moments that try our endurance, but they are necessary for us to develop spiritual maturity.  Instead of getting anxious and worried maybe we just need to disconnect and simply wait on God.  Mr. Tucker found peace simply sitting on the front porch of Andy’s house peeling an apple.  God invites you onto His front porch to sit down and take your load off.  He invites you in your trial to relax, to rest, and to trust Him.  Don’t allow your patience to be a casualty of life’s pressures.

The Beard Tax: September 5th Devotional

 

The Beard Tax

Matthew 23:23-28

September 5th Devotional

      On this day in 1698 Russian Czar Peter the Great levied a beard tax on his citizens. Peter instituted this tax after touring Western Europe for the previous two years. His travels through Hungary, France, and countless other countries convinced him that Russia was drastically far behind them in regard to culture and fashion. Peter was determined to “Europeanize” Russia. He introduced the tax during his welcome home party. The first victims to fall prey to his petty beard tax were Russian Nobles. Peter had a jester go from bewhiskered man to bewhiskered man. If the man refused to be shaved the jester ‘bopped’ him on the head. Peter felt that the beard was backward and ‘repulsive.’ The cost of the tax varied based on your financial status. Peasants and clergy were exempt from the tax; the clergy because they felt that God created man, and the beard was a part of God’s creation. It was forbidden for Russian Orthodox priests to be clean-shaven. The typical tax varied from 30-100 rubles. When the person paid their tax they were given a ‘beard coin.’ The beard coin had a beard printed on it and gave the bearer the right to have a beard. The men were required to carry it and failure to do so could result in further fines, being arrested, or even being publicly shorn, no matter their financial station. Peter the Great was very serious about the enforcement of this tax. He created checkpoints in and out of cities and hired extra law enforcement officers to make sure the law was being carried out. The goal wasn’t just to eliminate beards but to also change the fashion of Russia as a whole. He demanded the tailors start making clothing in a more ‘modern’ style. These taxes and unjust changes naturally caused quite an opposition in Russia, it even led to a revolution in 1714 where hundreds of people were killed. The beard tax slowly grew out of fashion. It was a financial failure and never changed the Russian culture. It wasn’t officially repealed until 1772.

      Peter the Great wasn’t the only world leader who tried to enact a beard tax; both England and France had tried, all ending in failure. The nation of Yemen had a ‘beard tax’ that charged men for not having a beard. We laugh at such ridiculous rules, and rightly so. But are there ever times when we as Christians enforce things that are not ‘rules’? Are there times when we equate personal preference and conviction with that of Scripture? There is nothing wrong with personal preference and conviction. There isn’t sin in that, but there is when we make it equal with the Word. Jesus spoke very seriously against this error in Matthew 23:23-28. Jesus was addressing the religious leaders who had moved into legalism. Jesus does not mince words as He calls them hypocrites, blind, lawless, dead, negligent, and self-indulgent. In verse twenty seven Jesus says “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness.” The rules and legalism that they clung to made them look clean on the outside, but their hearts were still dead. That is what legalistic rules achieve, outward conformity without inward transformation. There is nothing inherently wrong with rules or preferences, each of us have them. The problem is when we focus on them instead of the Scripture, or when we ignore the clear things of God for the things of opinion and preference. Let us strive in unity for the Word of God.

Reflections at the Beach: The Rocky Shore

 

Reflections at the Beach

Week Fifteen 

"The Rocky Shore"

Focus text: Psalm 61

      Walking onto the sandy shore of the beach can be one of the most therapeutic things in all the world.  The gentle, salty breeze hits you reminding you to unpack all your worries. The sound of the waves wash away your stress and anxiety. The soft sands is like a giant welcome mat inviting you to dig your toes in or to take a long walk. Almost each beach has that atmosphere, but beaches in the Northeastern part of the United States are unique, and not necessarily in a good way. The shore line of most New England coastal beaches are littered with huge rocks. I looked up why this phenomenon happens but no explanation could cause my feet to find comfort.  Walking the shoreline of Rocky beaches isn't very fun, if anything it's difficult to navigate. You have to take your time and watch each step. 

      Rocky shorelines aren't very fun and make the going more difficult.  The same can be said about life's rocky moments. Those challenging times seem to spring up out of nowhere with little to no notice. They punch you in the gut leaving you reeling wondering what hit you. We would love to remove this detour, we want to take a short cut and simply avoid it all together. But what do we do when God brings us to the valley of this path and asks us to walk through it. Things like cancer, unexpected death, loss of job, divorce, and countless other undesirable experiences leaving us yelling 'anything but this' but God in His providence points His finger toward the unknown and scary. Uncertainty becomes a normal emotion. We don't understand why, we might not get an answer on this side of heaven,  but God simply says trust Him. We aren't sure of the purpose but we know that God is faithful and good. We take the things that we have learned and now we do life. What can we do? How can we keep from drowning in disappointment, discouragement, and darkness? We need to take our eyes off the rocks and focus on the rock. Psalm 61:1-3 says "Hear my cry, O God, listen to my prayer; from the end of the earth I call to you when my heart is faint. Lead me to the rock that is higher than I, for you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the enemy." We believe the background of the psalm is when David was fleeing from his son Absalom. Imagine the uncertainty that plagued him. Imagine the fear that would have invaded his mind. Try to measure the rocky Shore that he had to walk. And yet in the midst of that he turned his eyes onto the rock that was higher than he. May we take the same advice of David as we stop looking at that which is challenging and instead look to the author and the finisher of our faith. 

Reflection for the week

Write down each rock that seems to weigh you down or is besetting you. Strike a line through each of those rocks and write Jesus name beside it. Take your focus and attention off the hard to navigate shore and make Christ the focal point. May He be so big that we can't see the rocks, only the rock!

A Healthy Sweet: July 9th Devotional

A Healthy Sweet

Psalm 119:103

July 9th Devotional

      Warning; today's day in history will make you hungry and is not supported by any major donut corporation :-) Today's date in history is extremely sweet   :-) It doesn't matter if you are dizzy for Dunkin, crazy for Krispy Kreme, craving Krumpies, or hankering for Home Run we can all agree that donuts have a place not just in our hearts but also in our stomachs. On this day in 1872, John Blondel of Thomastown Maine received a patent for a donut-cutting machine. The spring-loaded device was used to punch out the center hole of the donut. It served as a hole punch for donuts. Donuts were probably introduced to the colonies by the Dutch but they did not receive their now common round shape until the 1840s. While Blondel didn't invent the donut his ingenious invention would dramatically increase the production of this tasty food and much to our delight also increase their consumption.  Who doesn't love a donut? They have captivated our culture and have become a staple in our diet.  Estimates show that Americans eat around 10 billion donuts a year, or about 63 donuts per person, per year!

      While donuts are fantastically delicious they are also extremely bad for our diets. Most things that are sweet or taste good are not particularly good for us. But the Bible speaks about something sweeter than anything else and should be part of our daily consumption. This extremely sweet thing is also beneficial for our life and can be consumed without any negative consequences. Psalm 119:103 says "How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth!" The word of God is sweet to our taste because it provides us with the words of life and direction. It is inspired by God and meant to be read and applied daily. The word of God is not something that we merely carry around, allowing it to collect bulletins from church on Sunday, or collect dust in our home. The word of God, like donuts, is sweetest when ingested. No one enjoys going to Krispy Kreme and watching the donuts made without eating them, nor should we as Christians be content having the word without reading it.

Our Spiritual Superstore: July 2nd Devotional

Our Spiritual Superstore

Philippians 4:19

July 2nd Devotional

      On this day in 1962, Samuel Walton opened his first Walmart store in Rogers Arkansas. Walton was born in 1918 in Kingfisher Oklahoma. Samuel's family were farmers in his youth but due to the difficulty of the great depression and the dust bowl his father was forced to work for farming mortgage and insurance companies. Walton learned the value of work at a young age. Due to the severe suffering of the great depression, Walton would work long hours at a variety of different jobs each day to help his family make ends meet. During his youth, he also became the youngest eagle scout in the state. Walton would later work his way through college at the University of Missouri. Walton excelled both academically and personally. His degree was in economics and he would manage his first store at the age of 26. He would quadruple the value of this store by providing cheaper products and keeping the store shelves stocked. He continued to develop fantastic marketing ability and was extremely competitive with other businesses. He would open up multiple different five-and-dime stores, one of them being in Bentonville Arkansas where the corporate office of Walmart is today. He also owned multiple different Ben Franklin stores. His greatest success though would be Walmart. Originally the Walmart corporate design was to provide American-made products at a cheap price to compete with a foreign market. At one time Samuel Walton was the world's wealthiest man. Over time, Walmart has become the biggest private employer in the world. there are nearly 5,000 Walmarts in the United States, over 11,000 in the world, and over 2.2 million employees.

      Walmart today is known as a One-Stop shop where you can purchase anything you need in one store. Walmart revolutionized the shopping experience by creating super stores that provided a mass variety of different products. It seems that Walmart can provide everything that you need. The Bible speaks about somebody who provides for all of our needs. Paul writes in Philippians 4:19 "And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." Jesus is literally our spiritual superstore who we can come to about any matter, any time, anywhere. Philippians 4:19 is a promise from God that he will supply for us, that he will take care of us. He does this through the immeasurable riches of his son Jesus Christ. The immeasurable riches do not necessarily refer to the physical but to the spiritual. God takes care of his own in incredible and often jaw-dropping ways. Reflect at this moment on how God has provided for you.

It's a Colorful World: June 25th Devotional

It's a Colorful World

Revelation 21:18-21

June 25th Devotional

      On this day in 1951, the Columbia Broadcasting System (CBS) showcased the first-ever color tv program. The irony was that it went unnoticed since most people did not have color television at that time. The program was called "Premiere" and featured multiple stars in the entertainment industry. It aired in only five major cities, starting at 4:35 PM, and ran until 5:34 PM. In the year 1950, there was a mad rush between CBS and RCA to create the first-ever color tv. Both sides worked tirelessly to claim the crown of being the first. The Federal Communication Commission (FCC) tested both versions and found that CBS's television was superior but multiple problems quickly arose. The first problem was that manufacturers did not want to produce the tv because of the cost to make. The profit margin was minimal and most companies felt that the average person would not spend such an exorbitant price. A color tv was considered an unnecessary luxury. Despite the superior design the tv still would flicker and the final straw was that it was not compatible with black and white tv's. Despite all of this CBS pressed forward with what they called "Operation Rainbow" where they blanketed department stores and storefronts all across the United States. RCA studied CBS's struggle and started to recreate a new design, one that would work with a black and white tv and would be cheaper. By the end of 1953, RCA won the color tv war, far outpacing CBS's model.

      Color television changed the entertainment industry. Each of you reading this probably have multiple different televisions in your home that you spend countless hours in front of each week. People were dazzled to see bright vibrant colors coming through instead of the plain gray, black, and white tones. The human eye can see millions of distinguishable colors but even then we cannot process all colors on the spectrum. The Bible speaks about a place filled with the most amazing colors. Revelation 21:18-21 says " The wall was built of jasper, while the city was pure gold, like clear glass. The foundations of the wall of the city were adorned with every kind of jewel. The first was jasper, the second sapphire, the third agate, the fourth emerald, 20 the fifth onyx, the sixth carnelian, the seventh chrysolite, the eighth beryl, the ninth topaz, the tenth chrysoprase, the eleventh jacinth, the twelfth amethyst. 21 And the twelve gates were twelve pearls, each of the gates made of a single pearl, and the street of the city was pure gold, like transparent glass. These beautiful colored stones are inlaid into the walls and as the glory of God shines through the walls it will create the most perfect scene, a huge stained glass effect. The city is called New Jerusalem and it is a gorgeous city for God's people. Unlike the color tv show "Premiere" which was only available to a scant few people the offer to abide in this city is for all people who believe in Jesus Christ.  Have you trusted in Christ as your own personal Savior?

A Fruitful Father's Day

A Fruitful

 Father's Day

 

    Wednesday came as any normal Wednesday, a day busy with planning and study, a day in which starts with the best of intentions to knock off most of the checklist only to find the checklist growing as the day goes on. One of my greatest realizations as a pastor is that being organized is important, and a schedule is a must, but be prepared to change your schedule at any given notice. Wednesdays are usually very different though, people respect the fact that I have to study and prepare for the evening lesson, so Wednesday's schedule is fairly set in stone. That is until this past Wednesday; I received a phone call early in the morning from my dad's place of employment. My dad calls pretty often to check up on the baby to see how he is doing, to hear him laugh, etc. Dad asked about the baby and then asked me about my plans for the afternoon. Naturally, I thought that maybe he and my step-mom wanted to come down and have dinner or a late lunch, but instead, Dad simply told me that he was taking off to pick cherries, but only if I was able to come along. My mind raced. I will be completely honest, my dad and I at times have had a very strained relationship, we have gone months without talking (both our faults), and it seemed that during my teenage years, my dad and I distanced ourselves from one another. There was always love there, but that great friendship that existed between a father and son had cooled and became nearly frigid at times. I think this is the case with many father and son relationships, we as men are tough as nails, and non-emotional (or at least that is how we are programmed to be). My dad and I are closer now than ever before, and I credit much of this to me growing up and doing "adult things" like having a house and garden, being married, having a child, etc. Dad and I have a lot more in common, we talk flowers and vegetables, we talk sports and construction projects, and even the best methods to grill, but I honestly couldn't remember a time when Dad and I did something alone like pick cherries, it must have been years, maybe even little league age. I looked at my calendar and what needed to get done that afternoon and I almost told Dad "I'm too busy" but instead I shut the calendar, said this can wait and told my dad that I would be thrilled to go and pick cherries with him. I was honored that my dad would take off work early to spend time with me, just me (not the baby included). Now that might not sound like much to some reading this, but just "male bonding" time with my dad was something foreign, something that was needed. Dad came by around one and we headed to an orchard in our era named Orr's (I highly suggest this orchard). 

     As we drove we talked about life, houses, bills, fruits, trees, etc. We arrived at the orchard and started to pick strawberries and then a tractor picked us up and took us out into the cherry orchard to pick cherries. Together we picked somewhere around thirty pounds of cherries, but something greater than cherries was achieved that day, a bond was fortified. I looked at my father with the greatest of admiration, sadly something that I have failed to do through most of my young life. I always looked at the traits of my dad that I didn't want, but now I notice the traits that I want in my life, and the shock to me is that many of the traits that I want to strive for were at one point and time the traits in which I never wanted! I can honestly say that in that cherry orchard on Wednesday that my dad and I renewed a relationship that hadn't grown the way it should have or at least the way it was intended to grow in Christ. Tears almost came to my eyes as I sat at home and dwelt on it afterward, making me regretful for the hateful things that I said to my dad in my younger fury, for the months of silence, for the lack of respect that I paid unto him. Now I wasn't a horrible son, a matter of fact if you ask my dad he will tell you that I never gave him trouble, but I know in the depths of my heart that I caused that man pain, heartache, and confusion.......but isn't that the case of a man. A man's duty seems to be that of bearing the full weight of the world and yet never showing it, never shedding a tear in front of the public eye, never flinching or showing worry. A man simply says "Everything is ok" when in the depths of his heart he knows it isn't. It is his duty to be the knight in shining armor for his family, it is his duty to protect the family name and the integrity of the family unit. These are all duties of fatherhood that I never fully grasped until holding my little boy. I look deep into Noah's eyes and I see a handsome boy, I see my son. Yes, he does give Tiffanie and I a hard time on occasion, but I look past that and I say he causes me no trouble. The work of a man is a thankless job, a matter of fact a job in which we receive more flack than respect!

     To be a father is to be many things, things like a coach, a hard worker, a provider, a runner, and a fixer of all different things, you have to throw a ball, shot some hoops, you have to give sound advice on subjects that you feel uncomfortable with, and most of all you are called as a dad to be the spiritual leader of your household. What a burden to bear! Personally being a father is one of the greatest tasks God has ever given, but it also bears a tremendous amount of responsibility and a task that can only rely upon the Lord for understanding and wisdom. Fatherhood is the greatest blessing, but it can also cause us the greatest heartache! God also tells us as a father what we need to be doing, Paul in Ephesians 6:4 tells us to raise our children in the fear, training, and admonition of the Lord, WHAT A HEAVY BURDEN TO BEAR! We as dads are called to raise our children in a God-honoring way, without excuse! If God was so gracious to give unto you an heritage (child), then the least we can do is to properly raise that child, to train them up in the way they should go! Proverbs teaches us that if we raise our children properly that they will be life unto us, but beloved if we do not raise our children correctly then we are bound to fail and instead of life being passed down unto them we only pass to them death! Moses was told by God while wandering these words

4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord:

5 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.

9 And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.

~ Deut. 6:4-9

     Fathers, let me encourage you, be obedient unto the Lord, and teach your children diligently out of God's Word. Teach them how they should live and to whom they are under authority. Use your life as a shining example unto them. Continue to hold fast to the Words of the Bible, be faithful to your Church, support your pastor, pray often, and let your child "catch you" praying or reading the Word! But beyond this, make time for your child, no matter how old they might be. Who knows, a trip to the cherry orchard might change your entire perspective on your father/son relationship!

Finding Victory in Defeat: June 18th Devotional

Finding Victory in Defeat

Psalm 37:23-24

June 18th Devotional

      On this day in 1985, the New York Knicks picked Patrick Ewing as the number one pick in the NBA draft. The 1985 draft was the first of its kind, created to prevent teams from tanking to get the best draft pick (ironically teams still do the same thing today). The Knicks pick at number one was mired in controversy because David Stern the NBA general manager was an adamant New York Knicks fan. Many people felt that the envelope with the Knicks logo inside was marked in a way that Stern would pick it. Either way, the pick of Patrick Ewing changed the future of the New York Knicks for the next 15 years. Ewing was born in Kingston Jamaica and attended college for Georgetown, where three out of the four years he led the hoyas to the NCAA championship game, winning the national title in 1984 against Villanova, the final score being 66 to 64. Patrick Ewing stunned audiences in Madison square garden during his rookie year with his incredible talent and authority in the paint, winning the NBA Rookie of the Year award. His looming seven-foot stature was an incredible force of nature. Patrick would play seventeen years in the NBA, fifteen for the Knicks, one for the SuperSonics, and one for the Orlando Magic. His most notable years were spent with the Knicks where they were constantly a playoff team. He was an 11-time All-Star and a two-time gold medalist. Ewing's career was always overshadowed by the greatness of Michael Jordan, but the Knicks were able to play in two championships while Ewing was with them. In 1994 they lost a 7-game series against the Houston Rockets and then again in 1999 losing in a 5-game series to the San Antonio Spurs. Patrick Ewing was most recently the coach of the Georgetown Hoyas.

      Despite Patrick Ewing's great talent, he was never able to bring a championship to Madison Square Gardens. Everyone that has ever played a game or a sport loves the taste of victory but despises the pain of losing. More often than not we will lose more than win, and that applies spiritually too. We will endure hardships and battle temptation, and we will not always find ourselves on the winning end. We will have fought and resisted and yet found ourselves in defeat. But as Christians, we cannot allow our defeats to define us. Psalm 37:23-24 says “The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand." The psalmist makes it clear that we will indeed stumble, we will indeed fail, but God is faithful and is bigger than our failures. We will not fall because God holds us up with his hand. When we find ourselves on the losing end let us not linger in our defeat but let us learn lessons in our defeat so that we would find victory in the Lord the next time. You will win, you will lose, but God is everlasting in his faithfulness and his love for you changes not.

June Prayer Letter

“Mobilizing the Church Through Short-term Missions

June 2023

      One of my favorite movie scenes is from the Lord of the Rings adaptation of “The Two Towers.”  In the movie, King Théoden stands in the rain looking at a massive approaching army of Orcs coming to invade Helm’s Deep.  Théoden gazes out and says “So it begins” knowing that the time of battle had come.  Summer ministry feels a lot like that at times.  After months of planning, preparing, and organizing the time has finally come for summer ministry to go into full swing.  We currently have two VBS programs, two camps, assisting at another camp, a mission trip with over thirty people, and multiple speaking opportunities these next few weeks.  We are eagerly waiting to watch God work.

      But before we look into the future, we want to share a few updates about our family.  Our three children recently finished school.  By God’s grace, they all maintained straight A’s and have grown tremendously.  Believe it or not, Noah will be going to Middle School next year!  We love that our children minister with us, but we also try to plan fun activities for them too.  They are taking swimming lessons this summer, and Noah is participating in a local play in Martinsburg.  We also recently returned from a nice refreshing vacation with Tiffanie’s family!  It definitely energized us for the next few busy weeks!

    We are currently at Cove Valley Youth Camp speaking at Independent Bible Church’s young adult conference.  Matt is speaking on the subject matter of satisfaction.  The goal is to challenge the young adults to strive for the perfect things that God promises us instead of settling for the temporal trifles of the world.  God has blessed us with over 50 people in attendance.  Pray that the words that are sown will be taken into their hearts and used for the glory of God.

Our next two major summer ministries will be vacation Bible school at Pond Bank and Chambersburg Bible.  This summer’s theme is Truassic Park.  We will be taking a look at what the Bible says about creation.  There will be lots of fun, adventure, dinosaurs, skits, songs, snacks, etc.  Our kids are excited to lead worship and be major characters in the skits.  Pray during the weeks of June 18^th and 25^th as countless children will have the opportunity to clearly hear the Gospel.  Pray especially for salvation decisions.  After that Matt will be doing Gospel magic tricks for a Brethren in Christ church in Williamsport MD.  This church is currently facing a difficult time after their pastor had a fall and broke a majority of the bones in his lower body.  Naturally, the church is hurting.  Pray that this outreach event will not only be a blessing to the little ears listening, but also to the adults.  This doesn’t even touch on the plans for our trip and camps!

     My family and I can’t express how grateful we are for each of your prayers and financial support.  We have been trying to grow our support this year and we are in awe of your faithful partnership.  We see God’s faithfulness through you.  If you are interested in having us come and share please reach out to us.  Our calendar is rapidly filling up.

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